An aspect of Jinnah Sahib's life that is rarely talked about.

 An aspect of Jinnah Sahib's life that is rarely talked about.

If you have known the leader from school and traditional subjects.

Then this article will teach you something new but authentic.

An aspect that is rarely mentioned even in the book of his younger sister, Ms. Fatima.

If you look at the history, see.

So his wife died in 1929.

And he himself died in the year 1948.

During this time, a period of 19 years passed.

Many women, especially businesswomen, wanted to tie the knot with him.

But why did he not marry again?

We try to find the answer to this question.

The days when Jinnah Sahib was a lawyer in Mumbai.

That's where he used to meet his Parsi family Sardinsha.

Once he went to their house.

So there he met a 16-year-old girl.

 The following qualities were common to this young man:

1): He had a passion for poetry.

2): He loved reading books.

3): He had his own opinion on the country's politics.

"It is difficult to say for sure... He liked the beauty and intelligence of Rati. On the other hand, Mr. Jinnah's dignified personality and fame were very inspiring."

(Reference: Hum Sab News Desk: May 8, 2017)

She was often inspired by seeing Jinnah Sahib in her house.

Because there was an attraction in the Quaid's dressing and conversation.

And when did this initial attraction turn into love?

She came to know about it.

Yes, they had to face 3 challenges:

1): Jinnah Sahib was a Muslim and she was a Parsi.

2): She herself came from a rich family, while Jinnah was from the middle class.

3): Jinnah Sahib was 42 years old and she would have been 18 years old.

 You should put yourself in the shoes of this Parsi girl.

Who loved such a person.

The solution to the religious problem was to study Islam.

And then wholeheartedly accepted Islam.

She was named “Maryam Jinnah”.

She solved the family problem by giving up her wealth.

And separated from her family.

Rather, the difficult aspect is that the family boycotted her.

She made a practical decision to marry a partner 20 years older than her.

She proved her right with her mental compatibility.

Especially, both of them had a good match in their political and philosophical views.

It was an unconventional marriage.

There was a big scandal in the rich Parsi class of Mumbai.

This love flourished from 1918 to 1928.

But Maryam Jinnah had a grudge against the leader.

The same thing that often happens to a lover with a lover.

You don’t have time for me.

If you ignore me, I don’t feel good.

 Although she herself believed that Jinnah Sahib was on the path of building a country. From corner meetings to meetings in cities and studying at night, it was different.

In one of her letters, she writes to Jinnah Sahib:

"Darling! Thank you for everything you have done for me.

Remember that there is only deep softness and deep pain in my heart.

A pain that is without suffering."

(The Express Tribune: 30 September 2011)

Sometimes, the separation from her beloved leader would make her sad:

"Oh my beloved! Remember me like the flower.

Which you have chosen.

Not like the flower.

Which you have trampled under your feet."

(Reference: Pakistan Social Hub: 7 May 2017)

She separated from Jinnah Sahib for some time in 1928.

 In one of her letters, she talks about a "beautiful ending":

"Remember that I have loved you in a way that is rare for any man.

I only request this.

That which began with giving my heart.

May the end of our story also be filled with a feeling of love."

(Date and place of the letter: France, October 5, 1928)

Qarin Ikram! You see for yourself these days.

How much can we men and women change for each other?

If one's routine is busy, it comes to a breakup.

If someone hesitates to follow religion, they are blocked.

From dressing sense to how different our hobbies are.

They all have a grip on them.

Look at all this from the perspective of Maryam Jinnah.

When she found her beloved, she was also a wonderful leader.

She did not see the difference in age, religion or family status.

As her beloved wanted.

She changed herself.

 After the birth of their daughter, their relationship came to a standstill.

But the distance remained somewhere.

Maryam Jinnah never demanded divorce or khula.

She started living separately in the Taj Mahal (Hotel).

Their letters indicated that they loved each other till the end.

Even the book of Ms. Fatima does not confirm that they met again.

Maryam Jinnah left this world on February 20, 1929.

Her heroes attended her funeral.

According to eyewitnesses and many biographers:

"Very rarely has this happened.

We have seen Jinnah Sahib cry in public.

He was constantly immersed in tears after Maryam's death."

In your opinion, what was the love of Ms. Maryam Jinnah like?

Should a beloved's national responsibilities also be taken into account?

(Note! Please comment carefully on Jinnah Sahib's personality.

He is our respected leader and has played a major role in the establishment of the country.)