This is the right of Allah alone

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Until the camera knocked on the doorstep of literature and imagination, stories of all kinds were either heard by those with a poetic sensibility or in the service of those who had the courage to spend their nights with books.

As new resources continued to come into existence, the field of literature and imagination expanded and its reach began to reach every corner of the world. In the era in which we live, a similar accident occurred that the smartphone made resources so common that men, women, children, the elderly—every class began to look at all kinds of content in the same way.

Among the content that has become the most common with the diversity of technology, pornographic content is at the top of the list. I am not talking about films and songs, but rather pornographic content, also known as pornography. Of course, obscenity was once limited to the words of poets or to specific classes, who generally had no connection with noble families.

 But after the invention of the smartphone, its victims have become more common. Surprisingly, in the last few years, this trend has been found more among women than men. This is not the place to cite the statistics, here we will mention a new industry that has emerged in the name of treating the growing trend of pornography among women.

People belonging to this industry usually introduce themselves as Therapist, Counselor or Coach. It should be remembered that they usually do not have any formal degree and like all other businesses, these gentlemen are also causing more exploitation than treatment.

Yes, we have come across many such incidents in the past few years. I have personally read such chats and had the opportunity to talk to people who have become victims of this, especially women.

 What happens is that usually some person introduces himself as a Relationship Coach or Mental Health Coach and is looking for young girls who are addicted to pornography and want to get rid of this disease but there is no way out. In such a situation, they are forced to contact those who claim to get rid of these addictions.

But sadly, it has to be said that a large number of them start inappropriate conversations with women themselves under the pretext of treatment. Initially, they are asked how they are feeling, when was the last time they repeated the act of self-pleasure (Mastur****)? As an alternative to self-pleasure, it is offered to talk to them, open up to them and describe all their conditions in detail. When they are convinced that this is all part of the treatment, the next stage comes of exploitation.

 In the next stage, regular sexting begins, where in the name of treatment, the same things are repeatedly mentioned that were claimed to be freed. Although it is not possible to repeatedly mention the thing from which the liberation is intended and also achieve freedom. But this was never the intention of the gentleman.

Thus, the journey of chatting and then video calls is completed and the girl who wanted to get rid of these vile habits, ashamed of her Lord, is now caught in a much more dangerous trap. Earlier she used to see this material in someone else's video, now she herself has become a material. And by the time she comes to her senses, a lot of material has been collected to blackmail her.

The world of men's cruelty is that a woman has to go through continuous mental torture. First she is in a dilemma whether Islam is true or the atheism of the West, then when she repents from her unsavory sins through feminism, some wolf uses her for his own purposes. After that, it becomes difficult for her to get out of the trauma that all this was done by a person wearing a seemingly religious cloak.

Unfortunately, the reality is that such local Life or Mental Coaches are no less than fraudsters in other fields. They register an institution overnight and obtain a counseling certificate from there themselves and then cause mental anguish to countless people.

The first thing to note in this regard is that women, especially young girls between the ages of 16 and 23, should not contact such a life coach. Because this is usually the age at which girls are easily manipulated. If they are suffering from any addiction, then first of all they should pray to Allah Almighty a lot, observe prayers and contact a certified and well-qualified female coach.

 And especially do not share such habits with your friends. A major reason for many people who fail to give up sin is the confession or publicity of this sin in their circle of friends. Then it happens that you want to repent, some friend pushes you towards sin by saying, “Don’t be an angel now.”

No friend, no coach, no mentor has the right to make you mention your sins in front of him. Who can be a greater mentor and life coach for any Muslim than the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)? But the Companions (ﷺ) also did not like such confessions in front of him. Thus, it is mentioned in the hadith that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and said, “I have had intercourse with a non-mahram woman (except for penetration). Hazrat Umar (ﷺ) said: Allah has kept your veil, I wish you had kept your veil too.” Then the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) advised him to pray in congregation.

 (Sahih Muslim: 2763)

This is the right of Allah alone.